The real and lasting victories are those of peace and not of war - Ralph Waldo Emerson
Friday, May 22, 2026
Finally Friday - Memorial Weekend
The real and lasting victories are those of peace and not of war - Ralph Waldo Emerson
Wednesday, May 20, 2026
Whatever Wednesday - All That Life Can Afford by Emily Everett
All That Life Can Afford by Emily Everett is a fun read exploring class, privilege, and staying true to yourself.
Anna grew up reading Jane Austen novels, dreaming of balls versus her own reality as a kid on food stamps. After college, Anna gets to London but it's hard work living paycheck to paycheck. As a tutor for a teenage daughter, she meets the Wilders. Suddenly, she's in Saint Tropez on a work holiday. Parties, excess, handsome rich young men. It's a whirlwind. One fellow wants to whisk her into his world, another sees her trying to "fake it to make it". How will she reconcile her reality and her dreams?
This is not a new tale, but Everett imbues Anna's story with humor, grace, and plenty of humble pie. It's easy to like Anna and also be inwardly shouting,"noooooo",as she makes mistakes. The book is a page turner with some interesting twists and turns and a satisfying conclusion.
I give it five stars for fun and descriptions of great scenery.
Monday, May 18, 2026
Monday Moments - The Last Green Valley by Mark Sullivan
book blurb - On the Run from One Enemy. At the Mercy of Another.
Whew!
The Last Green Valley by Mark Sullivan follows Emil and Adeline Martel. It's late March 1944. Stalin's pushed into Ukraine. Do they wait for this intrusion and the chance of being sent to Siberia. Or do they follow the wolves - murderous Nazi officers who have pledged to protect "pure blood Germans?
This book is well researched and keeps the pages turning. It's a tough, brutal, complex tale. How to survive? How to keep hopes of immigrating west alive? It's hard work to find freedom.
This story starts in 1944. I found it very sad in one regard - are we going backward from progress made after WWII? Lots to think about.
Friday, May 15, 2026
Finally Friday - Kimbell Art Museum Dazzles Again
This is a preservation of liturgical treasures - given by kings. The finest goldsmiths and embroiders from France, Spain, Portugal, the Holy Roman Empire, and the Italian states, used gold, silver, precious stones, and textiles to honor the holy.
(brochure blurb)
vestments embroidered in gold. The detail is exquisite
This silver metal piece depicts Christ's rise from death. In person, it's fabulous
gold with lapis lazuli inlay. You have to say, "Holy......!!"
The Kimbell is a wonderful museum with lovely exhibition space. The spacing, the lighting, the magnificent art - awe inspiring history.
Wednesday, May 13, 2026
Whatever Wednesday - The Devil Wears Prada 2
Of course there's some apprehension. Will it be silly? Will it be lousy? What story line and how have they handled aging characters?
No worries. We launch back into the world of fashion, journalism, and the hustle bustle of NYC with aplomb. The story handles the onslaught of mergers, artificial intelligence, aging, and the money/power combo. I'm not going into the minutiae, just trust me it all works.
Our stars, Anne Hathaway, Emily Blunt, Meryl Streep, and Stanley Tucci, plus a bonus appearance by Lucy Liu, are all fabulous. They look great, and are so good in their various roles - working together or scheming. Special shout outs to Meryl and Stanley - it's a master class. Just a smirk, an eye role, a pause. Their timing is impeccable.
And another character itself is New York City - the glam, the money side, the hustle bustle, and the "little apartments" (HA!) I love it and soak it in.
So - big thumbs up from me. If you liked the original, you'll be very happy.
As Miranda (Meryl) says...."That's all."
"Go"
Monday, May 11, 2026
Monday Moments - at the Amon Carter - Black Photojournalism
Kwame Brathwaite - Changing Times 1973
The above are just two examples of the over 250 photographs featured at the Amon Carter Museum (Fort Worth, TX) in a special exhibition on Black Photojournalism. This shines a light on the groundbreaking work of more that sixty photographers working in the USA from 1945 to the mid-1980s. The photojournalists documented pivotal historical events as well as the richness of everyday life. (exhibit brochure)
A friend and I enjoyed our time spent looking at all of the photos and discussing some of the history involved. I grew up in PA, she grew up in Louisiana. Different perspectives of stories told, stories remembered. This is a very worthwhile exhibit and very well presented. Lots to think about from the black perspective/ human perspective and the importance of recording moments for posterity.
Kudos to the Amon Carter for getting this exhibit as organized by the Carnegie Museum of Art.
Friday, May 8, 2026
Finally Friday - The News From Dublin
Finally Friday and you read The News from Dublin title of this blog post. Did you think I was off traveling again? Fooled you. This is a book of short stories by Colm Toibin. It is a lovely journey - nine short stories set in Ireland, Spain, and America. His work covers the complexities of family, longing, and love. (cover blurb)
Toibin writes with ease - complex dynamics, haunting pull of the past, and the quiet revelations that define our lives. Whether navigating the aftermath of war, forbidden love, the longings of a Catalan girl in Argentina, or the quiet struggles of mundane life, all are rendered with illuminating empathy and insight. (cover blurb)
I enjoyed dipping in and out of this book and peering into others' lives. Very well written and rich tales told.
Wednesday, May 6, 2026
Whatever Wednesday - Final Farewell
Just some last looks at flora
Pretty colors
And Final sunset farewell to Costa Rica
I hope you've enjoyed my blog tour, and have the opportunity to visit the gorgeous friendly welcoming country of Costa Rica
Adios, amigos
Monday, May 4, 2026
Monday Moments - Thriller
Last day of April was a dreary blah day. I decided a movie could brighten the mood. Can't go wrong with a Motown beat. Michael proved entertaining to me. This film covers the beginning of the Jackson 5 in Gary, Indiana. Little Michael is clearly the star - perfect pitch, soul, and a sadness/joy mix to his tiny demeanor. Coleman Domingo as Joseph Jackson, the father, does a great job of showing the overbearing dad determined to use his sons for greater glory. He even uses the term "money machine" when referring to Michael.
Sure enough, Berry Gordy, Motown founder hears and sees the magic in Michael and his brothers. They skyrocket. The movie then pivots to Jaafar Jackson (yes, a relative of Michael) playing Michael as a teen, ready to move on from the J5. He has so much more to express. Jaafar does a very good job - the smile, the moves, the unique voice. The beat! Off the Wall, Billie Jean, Beat It, Thriller, the meteoric rise...
the Moon Walk dance!
The movie shows the Pepsi commercial incident, the final J5 tour, and then the Thriller phenomenon. The movie alludes to Michael's weird childhood, the Neverland connection, etc., but doesn't go to the dark side.
There have been other, better musical biographies but for $7 I escaped for two hours into good music.
Friday, May 1, 2026
Finally Friday - River Cruise in Costa Rica
a heron of some sort
this is a line of bats sleeping. They make it look like a snake on the tree. Creepy!
Tough to spot the howler monkeys
Um, glad we were on the boat. Crocodile!
Hope your nature encounters this weekend have less teeth.
Happy May Day!
Wednesday, April 29, 2026
Whatever Wednesday - Winter Storms by Elin Hilderbrand
Winter Storms by Elin Hilderbrand is part of a series. I bought this book at a library sale and did not realize it. However, it was easy enough to get the gist of the characters and story line of the Quinn family. Mitzi's home. Patrick's getting released from prison. Kevin and Isabelle are getting married. Bart's a prisoner in Afghanistan and they all await hopeful news.
cover blurb - An historic blizzard bears down on Nantucket. Before the snow clears, the Quinns will have to survive enough holiday intrigue to send anyone running for the spiked eggnog.
This is amusing fluff romance reading. I needed a no brainer and Hilderbrand is consistent in her writing. I was entertained.
Monday, April 27, 2026
Monday Moments - Uptown Girl
Listen...can you hear Billy Joel's song Uptown Girl? Sure enough, he wrote it about Christie Brinkley and she starred in the music video. Catchy little tune.
Well, here's the whole scoop by Christie Brinkley herself in her memoir Uptown Girl.
She was "discovered" outside a Paris phone booth in 1974. From there, she launched into a meteoric modeling career and became one of the first supermodels. Modeling, movies (National Lampoon Vacation), sitcoms, Broadway (Chicago). Christie Brinkley has been in the public eye for over fifty years. Now she tells her story and extols an unwavering belief in the magic and mystery of life. (cover blurb)
Four tumultuous marriages includes the heartbreaking Billy Joel divorce. They are still friends.
A near death helicopter crash. Wow - that's quite a chapter.
This is a fun, interesting, entertaining memoir. It's a mixed charmed life and harrowing relationships. She comes across as smart, intrigued with life, always up for adventure, and eager to learn. She laughs at herself and does write about her insecurities. And she agrees she fell for some bad guys along the way. (not Billy. He had his issues and she had to divorce him. But they stayed good parents to Alexa Ray. I believe her sincerity in those chapters.).
Plenty of pictures included - damn gorgeous. Good memoir.
Friday, April 24, 2026
Finally Friday - Beach Life
Costa Rica resort life - very spoiled
just waiting for a mojito
sunset dinner view
We have been back from Costa Rica for a month now. But the loveliness lingers
Hard to believe it's now almost end of April. We've been backyard prepping for summer. Some new landscaping by worker bees is awesome and our backs don't hurt. The pool is warming up. And here in Texas, it's been festival time. Lots of music shows, fairs, and frivolity. We have to get it in now to beat the heat. Hope you are having a spring fling! Enjoy.
Wednesday, April 22, 2026
Whatever Wednesday - Emperor of Gladness by Ocean Vuong
Nineteen year old Hai is ready to jump off a bridge. Grazina, an elderly immigrant widow, calls him down. She's developing dementia. He's full of despair with no options. In The Emperor of Gladness by Ocean Vuong, these two lost souls forge a path.
cover blurb Over the course of a year, the unlikely pair develops a life-altering bond, one built on empathy, spiritual reckoning, and heartbreak, with the power to transform Hai's relationship to himself, his family, and a community on the brink.
Love, labor, and loneliness can be the bedrock of American life. It's hard to live on the fringes. Sometimes a chosen family can save a soul.
This book can be a tough read at times. The characters are rather haunting, and Hai often does not make good choices. I was frustrated with him. The author, Vuong, has a rich style and good descriptions.
p. 282 Hai is talking to his cousin "Touch me. Go ahead. That's it. Everything else, what I do, what I've gone, the goals and promises, they're all, like, ghosts. My ghost is in pieces. It's all over the place, caught in all the spots where I snagged myself. You get it?"
The Emperor of Gladness was interesting. I'm glad I read it, but...it's challenging.
Monday, April 20, 2026
Monday Moments - Costa Rica - Yes there's more
Then, later a sunset view from our room
Peaceful
Can you hear some monkeys howling?
Next morning, we hit the road early. At this pitstop - a scarlet Macaw Pretty tame and used to showing off for the tourists.
Friday, April 17, 2026
Finally Friday - The Correspondent by Virginia Evans
Finally Friday.
Well, many Fridays ago, while in Costa Rica I finally finished reading The Correspondent by Virginia Evans. Amongst friends, this was THE book of the season. I was on the library list forever. And, of course, it was ready for me a day before our trip. Turned out to be a wonderful read. I kept the pages turning and it helped the four hour flight time zoom.
cover blurb - Sybil Van Antwerp has throughout her life used letters to make sense of her world and her place in it. She writes to her brother, her best friend, to Joan Didion, and to one person to whom she writes often yet never sends the letter.
As the reader, we learn about Sybil and her life. The ebb and flow offers questions, sometimes answers, and we slowly see a life story build. The writing has verve, shows strong character, and is delightfully precise with a touch of whimsy.
This book is a gem - shows the power of finding solace in literature and connection with people. It is about the hubris of youth and the wisdom of old age, and the mistakes and acts of kindness that occur during a lifetime. (cover blurb)
As a letter writer myself, I truly appreciated the author's skill in navigating Sybil's life via this form of communication.
The Correspondent is a MUST READ. Super duper!!!
Wednesday, April 15, 2026
Whatever Wednesday - Monteverde - More hikes
Now we're in the Cloud Forest. The pictures might not show the difference, but in person, this area had different trees, plants, and vibe.
As you can see, Ray even wore a jacket. There was always a light mist, even in bright sunshine
so lush
The bright green in the middle of the picture is a Quezal - a treat of a bird to see. My phone doesn't take super duper close ups. But we got to look through our guide's telescope. So cool. Yellow beak. Tufted hair. colorful underbelly feathers.
Monday, April 13, 2026
Monday Moments - Costa Rican Miscellaneous
I always like church steeple photos - dramatic sky
I'll stop for a colorful mural
Back to our rooms and decorations adorned the beds
and we weren't on a cruise ship!
Friday, April 10, 2026
Finally Friday - Costa Rica - Mistic Park
Are you tired of seeing lush greenery?
unique trees?Ray crossing the bridge - what's on the other side?
We lucked out with weather. The sky and clouds are fantastic
Always a volcano in the distance












