Monday, June 16, 2025

Monday Moments - Daydream Drift and Dad

One of those heavenly days that cannot die - William Wordsworth  1800

 Yesterday is but today's memory and tomorrow is today's dream - Kahlil Gibran  1923
So, yesterday June 15th was Father's Day.  Alas, my father has been gone over a year now.  Hard to believe.  Here was his favorite picture of himself - a Navy man.

And here was March 2024.  He passed May 9, 2024.  Age 91

He was hanging around in spirit in Folly Beach as my family - Ray, brother David and his wife Cherie, and my sister Lori - enjoyed time together early May. 

Oh we laughed and told stories - our favorite George moments.  

A good man.  





Friday, June 13, 2025

Finally Friday - The Private Patient by PD James


back blurb - Cheverell Manor, a lovely old house in Dorset, serves as the renowned  plastic surgeon  George Chandler-Powell's private clinic. Investigative journalist Rhoda Gradwyn arrives to have a disfiguring facial scar removed. Within hours of the operation, she is murdered. 

Commander Dalgliesh and his team are called in to investigate. But old crimes and complicated secrets of the past prove complex and perplexing. 

Oh so British, and such a good read. The writing is delightful, the descriptions and settings are rich, and the characters have depth.   The  Private Patient by PD James is an utter gem of a tale.  Kept  me guessing!    Pour a cup  of tea, and start reading....

Wednesday, June 11, 2025

Whatever Wednesday - Drifting Away



 A moment of Zen brought to you from a Folly Beach vacation

Monday, June 9, 2025

Monday Moments - The Queens of Crime by Marie Benedict


 cover blurb  London, 1930. The five greatest women crime writers have banded together to form a secret society, with a single  goal: to show they are no longer willing to be treated as second-class citizens by their male counterparts.  Dorothy Sayers, Agatha Christie, Ngaio Marsh, Margery Allingham, and Baroness Emma Orczy plan to solve an actual murder, a young woman found strangled in a park in France. 

Marie Benedict writes a lark of a novel, The Queens  of Crime. From start to finish, this book is daring fun. She captures the voices and bearing of strong women.  They use their own writing process and inhabit  their particular detective characters to think through the murder of this young nurse. They are appalled at the  lack of police attention.  But  they are not shocked that high  levels  of British establishment are involved.

This book was inspired by a true story in  Dorothy Sayers's own life. Benedict does a superb job of  showing strength in numbers when it comes  to the clever brains  and determination of  these successful women.  And she keeps  us guessing from start to finish as clues, red herrings, and more keep  the pages turning. 

Very, very fun find  at my library. 

Friday, June 6, 2025

Finally Friday - Look Up in Charleston

As you stroll Charleston, always stop and look up.  The  homes are often built tall and narrow - all the better to open windows and catch a sea breeze.  There are a lot of balconies and gorgeous finishing to  the roofs. 
Oh, it's a money town.  One can imagine the parties, the carriages pulling up to home, and folks decked in their finery stepping out to dance the night away.  

 We have to acknowledge the gardeners of Charleston. I wouldn't want  to be responsible for the greenery upkeep.
Home tour - look up. There's always a chandelier
The Joseph Maginault home "in town".  You had to have property/ plantation, and then your city home for entertaining during the high season. 

Charleston keeps its history intact and  up to date. Their historical society respects and maintains gorgeous  properties. 

After your tours, stop into one of the many restaurants that abound. Enjoy some very fresh seafood!

Wednesday, June 4, 2025

Whatever Wednesday - Stroll Charleston


 Welcome to Charleston, SC.  This is a delightful port city full of southern charm, trees dripping with Spanish moss, history, and architecture.  Take a walk with us
No Ray, they are NOT going to open the gate for you
A stately home
Lori and I in front of a bank window
And of course, lovely church steeples touch the sky

Monday, June 2, 2025

Monday Moments - Say More by Jen Psaki ( A break from SC sightseeing)

In Say More: Lessons from Work, the White House, and the World, Jen Psaki gives a candidly refreshing discussion about communication.  She walks us through difficult conversations and shows how humor can lighten a moment or diffuse a situation. Her time in the Briefing Room showed how she could discuss topics across a divide (think Fox News), and how it's important to  listen. 

She worked with a variety of bosses - hot  tempered Rahm Emanuel, cool intellectual Barak  Obama, optimistic John Kerry, and the thoughtful Joe  Biden. She had to jump in for a new tone for the country after the tumultuous Trump first term. 

I enjoyed  her writing and stories from the trenches. Obviously a smart cookie and definitely a go-getter.  P. 134 ...there's rarely been a day in my career that I didn't wish I'd answered a question with greater clarity or given more context.  What I came to realize is that fixing mistakes is not something you have to do because  you're  bad at your job, but because it is a part of your job. The solution to poorly communicating something the first time is not to stop communicating, but to keep communicating. 
 

She definitely gave me communication ideas to think about. Excellent Psakibombs takeaways - ha!