Friday, August 16, 2019

Movie Review Madness: The Farewell

The heat index Wednesday was close to 110. Crazy. After work, I decided to cool off at the movies and watch an artsy flick. I needed something quiet, something to think about. The Farewell, directed by Lulu Wang, served my goals. It was quiet, introspective, and poignant. Well acted and directed, it's a family story, a cultural contrast story.

Billi (the excellent Awkafina in a dramatic role) lives in NYC but talks to her grandmother in China all the time. Visiting her folks in the city, she finds out they are leaving for China for a wedding. Who's wedding? What? Why?  Turns out, the wedding is an excuse to see the grandmother who's dying of lung cancer. But no one will tell her. It's a secret.

Billi's financially struggling, doesn't get the grant she's hoped for, but hops on a plane and surprises everyone in China. The grandmother is delighted.  The parents, et al make Billi swear she won't break the news. She has to act happy - go with the flow. This is against the Americanized part of her - it's lying, just not right. But in China, it's part of many family's culture - no need to dwell on the bad. Enjoy any final time with family and be happy.

The movie explores the family dynamics as they go through the wedding. The grandmother is so happy and you watch tender moments and struggling moments among the various family members and Billi.  The Farewell is quite good and makes you think. 

P.S.. it does have subtitles.  Warning if that annoys you. Hence, Ray did not join me in my artsy movie mood.

11 comments:

  1. Hi Joanne - I imagine this would be an interesting film to view ... I'll keep an eye open for it. Yes can imagine you'd like to get away from that heat - cheers and enjoy the swimming weekend - Hilary

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    1. I think you'd like this one a lot. Very thoughtful film

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  2. Pleased you enjoyed the film albeit the heat.
    Here it's wet and windy ....and COLD.
    Enjoy your weekend.

    Yvonne.

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    1. thanks. The thought of cold sounds nice. Let's switch spots for a day

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  3. Sounds like it hit the spot for you. Subtitles do tend to annoy me though as I find myself reading them more than watching.

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  4. I've heard many good comments about this one. Thanks for your review.

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  5. I want to see it.
    www.rsrue.blogspot.com

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    1. in theaters now - find a good day to see it. Enjoy!

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  6. This sounds like a movie I might enjoy, but no way in Hades I'd ever be able to drag my better half to see it. Not sure my gal pal would be game, either.

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