Wednesday, December 31, 2025

Whatever Wednesday - Happy New Year's Eve and then 2026

Greetings all on New Year's Eve Day.  I've been a good  girl this holiday season with workouts at the YMCA.  However, I've been naughty in the volume of cookies eaten.  'Tis the season. 

I hope you've stayed healthy, enjoyed family, and had some rest and  relaxation too.  


And here's Snoopy to greet you on Thursday with a Happy New Year!

All the best to my blog friends.  2025 has been a roller coaster.  Will 2026 be a tilt-o-Whirl?

Good luck everybody.   Cheers
 

Monday, December 29, 2025

Monday Moments - JFK


 ' Nuff said

It's the Kennedy Center


Friday, December 26, 2025

Finally Friday - Christmas Season Filler - Enjoy

Friday after Christmas filler.   Here's  Myles invading Blue the cat's space in South Carolina.  So far, Blue tolerates Myles - 8 months old.  But, I'm sure he's hoping this kid leaves at some point. 
 
Some beach town in SC had a Christmas tree and there's Myles.  Thank goodness, Santa was not around. No tears.

Here's a super Texas oldie pic - this Santa is no longer  around and we do  NOT expect  a white Christmas. 
A very fun oldie Christmas morning with Dakota.  She is now eight years old.  Can't say what she's getting this year.  A car?  A phone?   Meanwhile,  this was sheer joy. 

Hope everyone is enjoying the post Christmas hangover...yea, for family time....are they gone yet?

Our YMCA is open, so we are back at water aerobics (me), and Pickleball (Ray). 

Cheers everyone - hope it's a super post Christmas weekend. 

Wednesday, December 24, 2025

Whatever Wednesday - Merry Christmas Eve


 Merry Christmas Eve, one and all

Here's a pic of my Nana Crowther and a snowman she crocheted a zillion years ago. 


and that's Christmas.   Family, memories. crafts, and love

Peace on Earth, Goodwill....


tis the season and I wish all my blog friends the best. Cheers my friends. 

Joanne

Monday, December 22, 2025

Monday Moments - The Eights by Joanna Miller


 The Eights by Joanna Miller is an excellent piece of historical fiction.  Well written with engaging characters, this book takes us back to 1920 Oxford. For the first time in over a one thousand year history, females are admitted, and they are eager to forge a path. 

Now, don't get too excited. This is a tough new world.

 Four women, Beatrice, Dora, Marianne, and Otto are in  Corridor Eight. They come from all walks of life, each have secrets, and they are driven for different reasons.  They also find that there are still  many restrictions for  women.  

cover blurb: The shadow of the Great War still looms providing a turbulent world to  navigate.  Misogyny is rife, influenza threatens, and the ghosts of war don't always remain dead. 

The author obviously did plenty of research. She  alternates with back stories for each young lady, and then gives us their  daily lives at  university. The history,  traditions, and  now the  new  paths  being forged are presented well.

I enjoyed this book and were proud of these ladies.  When you really  think about that time period, these young ladies were quite bold and brave. This was my grandmother's  era, back in  the day in the U.S., and apparently she participated in suffragette parades. It's hard to picture, but The Eights brings the time period  to life in  England.  Well done!  

Friday, December 19, 2025

Finally Friday - The Widow by John Grisham


 John Grisham churns out reliable, entertaining books. His latest, The Widow, does not disappoint. 

Simon Latch, a small town lawyer in Virginia, is struggling. He's doing the usual boring paperwork for folks, which isn't big income. He's on the cusp of divorce, so that price tag is hanging over his head. And he has a small gambling problem. 

A widow, Eleanor Barnett, walks in and needs a new will. Her late husband was frugal but invested in Coca-Cola stock (he worked for them), and Wal-Mart. Otherwise, house is paid for and she lives a quiet life. Simon is filled with  glee at this good luck.  He does proper paperwork and counts on continued income for him when it's time to process it.  She has no contact with her stepsons, and plans to give money to charity. 

cover blurb - When she is hospitalized after a bad car accident, Simon realizes that nothing is as it seems. He finds himself on trial for a crime he swears he did not commit: murder. 

I can't tell you more, but there are plenty of twists and turns in Simon's life. The Widow is a page turner. 

Plenty of  surprises abound.  Enjoy!


Wednesday, December 17, 2025

Whatever Wednesday - Hamnet


 Lots of buzz for Hamnet. Golden Globe nominations, etc. 

This was a very intense, rather sad, but a wow movie.  The acting was superb. 

Directed by Chloe Zhao and based on the book by Maggie O'Farrell (who also co-wrote the screenplay with Zhao), Hamnet is a fictionalized version of the creation of the famous Shakespeare play Hamlet. 

We watch William Shakespeare (a magnetic Paul Mescal - oh, his eyes) fall head over heels for Agnes (Jessie Buckley - tremendous).  He's off to London to try to pursue this playwriting thing.  She's home with children. She's a strong woman, known for her forestry skills and wildness. She has to deal with his mother, Mary (a strong Emily Watson).   When Will's home, Agnes and he are a hot passion on screen. 

Agnes has to deal with "the pestilence" when it hits her eleven year old twins - Judith and Hamnet.  Alas, Hamnet ( a superb young actor Jacobi Jupe) dies (this is true in 1596).  She mourns.  She thinks Will doesn't care.  

Only when she goes to London and witnesses Will's new play Hamlet does she realize the depth of his mourning.  (cool fact - the young man playing Hamlet (Noah Jupe) on screen is the much older brother of the young actor playing Hamnet. Lots of talent in that family)

Have your tissues ready.  This film is quite intense and just hits the gut at multiple times.  Gotta love creative cinema.  Kudos. 


Monday, December 15, 2025

Monday Moments - Pickleball, Anyone?


 Happy Monday, everyone.   Ray has a new pickleball partner.  Anybody up for a game?

Tis the season here.  Feeling festive.  We have some projects going on out front (awaiting worker bees), so no decorations.   Then Santa arrived (found him at At Home, on sale) and decided he could wave to everyone for now. 

It's mid-December.  Hope everyone is staying healthy and having some fun... and a Christmas cookie or two. 

Friday, December 12, 2025

Finally Friday - Heart the Lover by Lily King


 Heart the Lover by Lily King is a new connective thread book (from Writers and Lovers).  We see Casey in her senior year of college meet and fall for Sam and Yash - stars of 17th century  lit class.  

cover  blurb - She discovers the pleasures of friendship, intellectual ambition, the intoxicating world of academic fervor, and rapid fire banter and fun. But youthful passion is unpredictable, and soon she  finds herself at the center of a charged and intricate triangle. Choices will be made that alter these three lives forever. 

Decades later, Casey's a successful  novelist. She's  married with children. But there's a surprise visit. Unexpected news.  Now she needs to make amends, consider decisions made, and complete a circle from  youthful bonds.

I read this fresh after the first related book. Lily King really knows how to write about relationships and actions and consequences. A very fresh twist took me by  surprise and I found myself tearing up. (I swear Ray always walks into  a room just as I'm sniffling  over a novel).  

I will say I heart both books, the characters, the plot  lines, and the finale.  Well done. (have a tissue ready)

Wednesday, December 10, 2025

Whatever Wednesday - Writers and Lovers by Lily King


 cover blurb - Blindsided by her mother's death, and wrecked by a recent love affair, Casey Peabody arrives in Cambridge MA, summer of 1997, without a plan. A child golf prodigy, she now waits tables and rents a tiny side garage room where she works on the novel she's been writing for six years.

In Writers and Lovers by Lily King, we follow Casey's fight to fulfill ambitions, balance demands of art and life, juggle two new very different  men, and avoid crisis after crisis. 

Casey is a likeable character, as are the two men in her life. But I wanted to  shake her too. King does a good job of exploring artistic passion, ambition, and the terrifying and  exhilarating leap between the end of one phase of  life and the beginning of  another. (cover blurb) 


Monday, December 8, 2025

Monday Moments - Santa Stranger Danger


 I got permission from my niece  to post this. 

My grandnephew, Myles, now 8 months old, recognizes stranger danger.  

This Santa dude - not having it!

Oh, this is one for the memory vault.  On his wedding day, we'll pull out this pic. 

Merry Christmas December everyone!


Cheers

Friday, December 5, 2025

Finally Friday - Five Generations

Friday filler - Family pics from  Thanksgiving.  Here's five generations:

LD and Joyce (front), begat Ray (right), who begat Chris (left), who begat Abby with Levi (age 2)

Whew!

Here's all the girls - Kevin's  crew with Abby
and Here's everyone.  We gathered at the party room at the senior living  center. Had  Tex-Mex - easier to keep warm in crock pots.  Plenty of food and laughter.

Now we're planning for Christmas. 
 

Wednesday, December 3, 2025

Whatever Wednesday - The Outsiders

Treated myself to a Sunday matinee at the Music Hall at Fair Park, Dallas.  Nosebleed seat  - could see and hear great.  S.E. Hinton wrote The Outsiders in 1967.  This was a teenager (age 18) writing about teens in Tulsa, OK.   It struck a nerve.  

  It did become a movie in 1983 with a cast of young up and comers - C. Thomas Howell, Matt Dillon, Ralph Macchio, Patrick Swayze, Rob Lowe, Tom Cruise, and Diane Lane.  Wow - quite the lineup of future success stories. 


 Now The Outsiders - a musical won the 2024 Tony Award and is touring the country. It is a stunning production and I highly recommend it.  Basically it is a bit of a West Side story tale - only in Oklahoma. The Greasers vs. The Socs.  Nolan White as Ponyboy Curtis had a gorgeous plaintive voice. He's a kid who likes to read, enjoys a sunset, and feels sad for his brothers, his friends - all poor, all struggling. It's a tough world, especially being bullied by the rich kids.  This is a musical about justice, understanding, communication, hope, and respect - all from a teen perspective. 

Great songs, voices, and the choreography was innovative and fabulous. Quite the production. 

Support the Arts!


Monday, December 1, 2025

Monday Moments - Defy Gravity Again

Opening Friday, Julie and I followed the yellow brick road to the movie theater and enjoyed Wicked: For Good.   This is the Part 2 after original Wizard of Oz, Wicked on Broadway, Wicked (Part 1).  Very fun, very magical, and perfect on the big screen.  We both rewatched the first Wicked movie on Amazon. I was glad because I had forgotten some bits that proved useful to know.  I'm not going to give plots or give away twists. I've read some reviews that were very so-so.  Oh well, I disagree.  

I do think the first Wicked was a tad better - it just had that truly original feel to it and better songs.

But this sequel got darker and I liked how it tied up loose ends on many issues.  There weren't  as many characters to track

I absolutely love Cynthia Erivo.  She can act with her eyes.  And when she sings, my heart soars. As far as I'm concerned, she is tremendous as Elphaba.  Wicked good acting. 

 Ariana Grande is such a little wisp of thing, but she can belt out the high notes. As Glinda the "good witch", she does conflicted well. She and Cynthia have excellent screen chemistry. 

I like musicals.  I like big productions.  I like fun cinematography.  This was glorious on  the big screen and I give Wicked: For Good a thumbs up.  Enjoy it with a friend and then go to lunch afterwards to discuss. 

Friday, November 28, 2025

Finally Friday - Some Gratitude and Joy


 As we contemplate the Thanksgiving season and the rush into Christmas, take a moment. Care!

I helped at the November Birthday Party Project at a local women's shelter. The month's theme was Care Bears and yes, there was a mascot.  (see me above).   When the Care Bear arrived, one of the birthday kids screamed and would have no part of this scary creature. The other two birthday kids were excited, and all of the other children ran up for hugs, pictures, and a magical moment. 

We had Care Bear themed stuff to hand out, games and crafts to play and do, plus singing "Happy Birthday" for November.  Then cupcakes.  It was a noisy messy party - we always call it "controlled chaos".  Kids left happy - a goodie bag in hand and hopefully a happy memory during their lives in transition. 

Take a moment.  CARE

Wednesday, November 26, 2025

Whatever Wednesday - Thanksgiving

Tomorrow is Thanksgiving Day.  As I write this post, there is so much uncertainty for folks - food, benefits, jobs, flights, weather.   The list is  huge.  Life seems exceptionally wonky this year. We're dealing with our super seniors - Ray's folks - and health issues.  87 and 89 are tough! 


So, I'm not sure where we are  celebrating and when. (could be at the senior center)

  We are fortunate and filled with gratitude for what we do have.  

 I hope  this post finds you healthy, surrounded by family and/or friends.  Or at peace with a book and streaming a Charlie Brown Thanksgiving.  If you are volunteering or running a Turkey Trot - I hope it's a lovely day and that smiles abound. 

I am grateful for blog world.  Take  care all.  Blessings.  

Happy Thanksgiving
 

Monday, November 24, 2025

Happy Birthday Eve for My Sister

Happy Birthday Lori!  I post this on Monday and she can celebrate the week.  This picture is from  the University of Delaware. We roamed around it this summer and she's  happy  to  be a Blue Hen alumnus. 
 
My  baby  sister (ten years younger) is still a kid  at heart.  She (right) enjoyed seeing her old  pal Pluto this summer at Disney  World along with her friend, Jenn (left).

Summer concert fun with friends.   Lori is retired, stays fit with her YMCA classes, and volunteers at a local library.  She's  the best. 

Happy Birthday, young'un.   Enjoy a super  week and a healthy year.   Cake!!!

Friday, November 21, 2025

Finally Friday - Rebel Rising by Rebel Wilson


 cover blurb - From the scene stealing star of Pitch Perfect and Bridesmaids comes a refreshingly candid, hilarious, and inspiring book about her unconventional journey to Hollywood success and loving herself. 

Rebel Rising by Rebel Wilson is an excellent memoir. I felt, as I read it, that she  was just hanging out on the  patio and talking to me. Quite a life. From Australia, a shy girl who just knows she's different and blossoms when acting. Incredibly poor, she becomes single mindedly focused on whatever task is at hand. She's enterprising. She plays tennis. She gets a law school degree. She has a gap year  time in  South Africa, and a bout of malaria.

She is candid about  her weight, the journey in regards to her health. 

She is candid about her late blooming love life. 

She is  really, really funny and I read this book with her Aussie accent in my  head. Plus she's far from done - she's  producing, directing, and acting. She's a rebel with  plenty to say. 

Wednesday, November 19, 2025

Whatever Wednesday - A Beautiful Noise

Ladies afternoon at Bass Hall to see A Beautiful Noise: The Neil Diamond Musical.  We are all fans and were eager to see the show. It was created in collaboration with Neil himself - his story as a kid from Brooklyn who went on to become a musical icon.  Over 120 million albums sold and a catalogue of classics. Plus a few marriages and struggles along the way. 


 
The lead playing young Neil, Nick Fradiani had an uncanny voice.  Close your eyes and it was Neil himself singing. 

So many songs - I love "Cracklin' Rosie", "I'm a Believer", "I Am, I  Said", "Play Me",  "September Morn", "Song Sung Blues", and so  so  many more.  What's your fave?

And of course - the showstopping "Sweet Caroline"... SO GOOD...SO GOOD...!

If the touring  production comes to your town, check out A Beautiful Noise. 

Monday, November 17, 2025

Monday Moments - Turning Two

Turning two can be full of ups and downs.  Eating pizza is fun.   This is Levi Faries - a great grandchild. (Yikes)
People bursting into a rousing "Happy Birthday" song brings tears.  Scared by the noise? Afraid of the pressures of being 2?    Mother, Abigail, was there to calm the nerves. 
Doing better once he could eat the cupcake.  Um, red dye icing - a  tad messy
Plenty of presents - but nothing's better than a bike and a lollipop. 

Good luck, Levi, in the Terrible Twos Phase.
 

Friday, November 14, 2025

Finally Friday - After I Do by Taylor Jenkins Reid


 cover blurb: After I Do by Taylor Jenkins Reid is a love story about what happens when love fades. It's about staying in love, seizing love, forsaking love, and committing to love with everything you've got. Above all, After I Do is the story of a couple caught up in an old game - and searching for a new road to happily  ever after. 

Lauren and Ryan's marriage is  out of sorts.  They decide to take a year off to figure things out. The only rule is NO Contact at all.   Lauren finds this very challenging. She's  questioning monogamy, marriage, romance, fidelity, love, lust, and more.  Key questions - what do you value?  What are you  willing to fight for? 

I enjoyed this story and it does make one think about the whole concept of marriage. Taylor Jenkins Reid writes a good tale and obviously liked her characters.  She's realistic with their flaws and helps them work through a tough year. 

A worthy reading journey. 

Wednesday, November 12, 2025

Whatever Wednesday - We All Live Here by Jojo Moyes


 We All Live Here by Jojo Moyes is quite the family tale. I was starting to get claustrophobia. 

cover blurb -Lila Kennedy wrote a bestselling book about keeping your marriage alive. Now she's watching her ex-husband play happy families with another woman. Her very fractured family is forced to live under one roof and Lila thinks she's reached her limit.  But what if the one person you couldn't forgive holds the secret to pulling your  family together again?  

Meanwhile, her agent is  bugging her for  her next book - hoping it will be about being single again and playing the field. Lila isn't  feeling that free and easy. She's maybe seeing Jensen.  

Her stepdad, Bill, moved in after Lila's mother died. He helped raise Lila. He's a help until he's not.

Her real father, Gene, a failed Hollywood actor, was never around. Suddenly he's at her doorstep - out of money. 

And her daughters, Celie and Violet, are furious at their father who left them, and are now rather fascinated by this "new" grandfather. 

What a mess.  Lila has a lot to deal with and work through.  Jojo Moyes is a solid writer who keeps the plot churning, the characters in  play, and humor abounds amidst the messes of family life. 

Well done.

Monday, November 10, 2025

Monday Moments - This is Happiness by Niall Williams

I enjoyed History of the Rain so much, I had to  find other Niall  Williams to read.  This is Happiness did not disappoint. 

cover blurb - Change is coming to Faha, a small Irish  parish unaltered in a thousand years. Electricity is  coming and the rain seems to stop. 

Noel Crowe is seventeen, restless, and a bit excited when Christy comes to Faha. He has secrets and a past love here in Faha. Meanwhile, Noel falls in and out  of love with three sisters - all out of his  league.  

cover blurb - Niall Williams gives us  a tender portrait of a community - its idiosyncrasies and traditions, its paradoxes and kindnesses, its failures and triumphs - with a tender coming of age story. 

I enjoyed the writing  - Williams' Irish lilt and his meandering ways all lend a charm.  Not a lot really happens and that's okay.  It's just the journey and time spent in  town - the gossip, the silences, the "scandal", and the time going to church, discussing church, avoiding church, and hoping the  rains come again.  That is happiness.  


Friday, November 7, 2025

Finally Friday - Explore Old Town in New Castle DE

Sail into New Castle DE and explore their old town.  Very nicely maintained town
 
a small  courtyard
gated view
William Penn did business here first before settling into Philadelphia
I love the  old buildings.  Alas, we were not there on a  tour day
I bet the museum held a musket or two from  Revolutionary Days. 

This was a nice jaunt, thanks to my sister. 

Wednesday, November 5, 2025

Whatever Wednesday - More corners of Glencairn

Let's poke about a bit more and admire  the craftsmanship at Glencairn
I loved this lamp. The shade just  glowed
Creepy king eyes watched as kids had to walk by him to enter the children's room
My head stayed on a swivel to try to see everything.  Look up, down, and sideways
Carvings in the library
And the master bedroom.  Note the turtledove post carvings. A sign of love

 Incredibly amazing place to visit.  I hope you enjoyed this quick few days of blog  posts as an overview.