The book was okay - the interviews and stories told were interesting. But the author summation was a bit generic and almost too easy. There was not a lot of depth. It's probably better to actually read the memoirs or works of those featured in this compilation.
I did enjoy the author talk. Katherine S.P. was very personable and I think her caring and interest on the subject of forgiveness came through better. She interviewed Elizabeth Smart who forgave her captors; Sue Klebold learned to forgive herself after her son Dylan was a Columbine shooter. Mark Kelly, powerful as an astronaut, but powerless when wife Gabby, a Senator, was shot, discusses his anger and now motivation.
The point of the book is to understand that forgiveness is a gift to understand your own self. You need to take control - allow it to empower your own freedom. The author spoke how folks don't talk about forgiveness, but it needs a support system. Everyone's pain, hurt is different and it's your own validation. "Hurry up and Move on" is not always the best solution. To accept or acknowledge an apology is very different from forgiveness. (Remember school playground days)
I've posted this book/author review together with a salute to John Lewis because I'm imagining that he's had to forgive many. Forgiveness made him stronger and more resolute through the years. I'd say it's not "forgive and forget" - it's forgive and use that power for a better you and world.
Hi Joanne - he certainly understood what's needed in life ... so glad you reposted adding in the John Lewis quote ... he must have been an outstanding man. Take care - Hilary
ReplyDeleteInteresting man for the times and his legacy should live on.
DeleteJoanne the top one knocked me sideways you see my late son's name was....John Lewis.
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Yvonne.
Wow. solid name and character. That's all we'll say. Different lives certainly.
DeleteI didn't even know they had a daughter.
ReplyDeleteIt's an interesting concept, especially when considering the variety of situations in which self-forgiveness is at play.
You know, I actually had the good fortune of meeting Sue Klebold. She's a phenomenal woman. In a very short discourse with her, she opened my eyes to the concept of forgiveness, parenting limitations, etc. (We met at a national gathering for people volunteering for the Amer Foundation for Suicide Prevention). It's all quite thought provoking.
Also, wonderful quote as a tribute to John Lewis.
Thank you. You always bring us the best, Joanne.
Wow - interesting to meet Sue K. in person. That had to be tough to had a son who is vilified. She has to live with so many people questioning her. Lots of issues.
DeleteAnd yes - John Lewis - to even have half the strength or character of these folks from Civil Rights Days and now - wow. His legacy should continue.
I'm sure you're right that John Lewis had to forgive many over his lifetime. I like the quote of his that you included too.
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