Finally Friday - friends!

Last Saturday 12/12/20 Some social distance good cheer with long time friends Linda, Julie, and Tom (see below)

These pics were taken after a splendid afternoon on Linda's patio - sunny, high 50s, and no wind. Perfect for our annual gathering to celebrate Christmas and friendship.  Tom, the house elf, fetched food from Chili's. 

We were inside only to gather up stuff to leave and snap a few memory photos. 

They are way too happy - both retired this year and now eagerly await the pandemic end so they can hit the road.  Adventures await

Now today, I will be celebrating Joan's birthday (right) with my PA gang via Zoom.   Mary Ellen caught up with her a few weeks ago. 

Nov 2019 seems so long ago. Here's Lisa, Me, Joan, and Helen enjoying book club and an old fashioned indoor afternoon. 

But we've managed to hang out long distance. Friday's are Fun - I plan to have cake in Joan's honor (but I won't eat it in front of her on camera - ha)

Have a good weekend everyone and catch up with a friend for a laugh. 

 

Whatever Wednesday

 How's your journey this week?  An uphill climb? Rough terrain? A tad rocky? Hey, it's Wednesday - a week and a half until Christmas.  We always say, " I can't believe it's almost Christmas." This year we say it with a "Holy Cow, it's almost Christmas, but it's a weird year, there is no plan, not going to see family, and do I have a tickle in my throat?"

I woke up the another night in a bit of a sweat. Mild panic, until I realized Ray had put the flannel sheets on the bed and it was not a very cold night. I was just hot. Turn back the covers a bit, and all okay. But strange times!

Today I have two quotes I liked from some reading lately: 

Wall Street Journal 11/29/20  

 Life is a great mystery. Is everybody a different person when they are with somebody else?   great author Louise Fitzhugh in her Harriet the Spy. 

The New Yorker  12/14/20

Ian Frazier in a review - Childhood is a darkened, fantasy filled theater in which, after a long or short while, the houselights are turned on, and the brightness makes you blink, and then you see the candy wrappers under the seats, and the lines for the bathrooms. That moment can happen at any time. 

Food for thought folks.  Carry on and let's cruise to the weekend.  Dashing through the snow, Fa-la-la. 

Book Review - Still Life With Bread Crumbs by Anna Quindlen

 Still Life With Bread Crumbs by Anna Quindlen is another winner in her batch of books - fiction or nonfiction. I can always count on her for good solid writing. 

Rebecca Winter is a photographer but now facing a declining career and a bit of a crisis of faith, plus her bank account is dwindling.  She flees to the country for a new perspective.  (cover blurb) There she discovers, in a tree stand with a roofer/birder named Jim Bates, that what she see through a camera lens is not all there is to the world. 

p. 6 I like her description of the country.  It was quiet now. There was a smell. So many smells. Mildew, damp linen, trampled plants. The bananas in the glass bowl on the drainboard. A whiff of what might be skunk, or skunk cabbage. In the backyard she'd taken a deep breath. It had smelled as though the entire forest around her was rotting by inches.

p.  213 She has a new agent, a new project The White Cross series, and a new lease on life.  This series of enigmatic tableaux is both mysterious and heartbreaking. Each as it was found: some images reflect the disintegration wrought by wind and weather. 

Rebecca's journey at age 60ish is well written by Quindlen. She captures the questioning, the endurance, and the world of a creative. Flee with Rebecca and restore your soul, too. Enjoy this book. 

 

Finally Friday - Magic of the Season

This is a good meme. December can be tough for many in a "normal" year. This year, a surge is occurring,  extra stress can overwhelm at any time - take a deep breath, pause,  and step back. Be a Cindy Lou Who (no more than two)

Here's a friend's young boy caught up in the magic

Again - sheer joy, freedom, exuberance, and a rainbow

Another friend's kid with his friend - she called it "and we pause for a  moment of toddler Vogue"

I pause to reflect on family/friends gone this year and in past years.  December brings memories to the fore. 

Friday - another week survived - be proud of yourselves and I hope you have a calm, safe weekend. 
 

Members Only Preview - Queen Nefertari's Egypt at the Kimbell

Took a vacation day last Friday so Ray and I could enjoy the members only Kimbell Art Museum's exhibit - Queen Nefertari's Egypt. 

This is a celebration of women - goddesses, queens, and artisans in the New Kingdom period (c.  1539 - 1075 BCE). Queen Nefertari ("Beautiful companion ") was a celebrated favorite wife of Pharaoh Ramesses II.  The Queen's tomb was found in 1904 in the Valley of the Queens - a significant discovery. The exhibit sheds light on palace life, roles of women in ancient Egypt, the work  of artisans, and insight into the belief system/ritual practices of death and the afterlife. 

Tomb fragments - sarcophagus lid of Queen  Nefertari

Ray is reading about ancient tomb coverings. The colors and preservation is amazing to see

Funerary stelae - decorated stone slab depicting the deceased receiving offerings to sustain them in the afterlife. 

There was so much to see and read - The exhibition covered  1. Pharaohs,  Goddesses, and the Temple. 

2. Women in Ancient Egypt   3. Deir el-Medina - the Worker's Village 4. The Afterlife  5. Queen Nefertari's tomb  6. Egyptian Tombs. 

Statues, jewelry, carvings, elaborate coffins, and scrolls of history. I know I need to read and research a LOT to learn more and appreciate this aspect of history. I have a goal for 2021, and I'll need to try to go back  to the exhibit before it leaves in March.  

 

Monday Moment - 2020 Christmas Light Challenge

Twas a lovely Friday here in TX. I had a vacation day, and Ray and I went to the Kimbell in the morning (post on that coming up Wed).  Came home, ate a yummy take out lunch from Italianni's (the name says it all), and then proceeded to light up the place.

Pretty day, no jacket required. No wind.  Ray had a backyard vision and as you can see from my not so awesome night photos, we have the Christmas spirit. 

Lots of shiny and bright glow

Our evening lights bring joy as we contemplate December, this whole year, and life in general. 

My elf Ray has thrown down the light gauntlet. I'll look for other posts from you, my blog friends - and that includes lighting the menorah for Hanukkah (Robyn). 

Take care and let's have a good week. 

P.S. Yes, today is December 7th, a Day that will Live in Infamy - President Franklin Roosevelt. 

Pearl Harbor Remembrance
 

Book Review - Greenlights

 Greenlights by Matthew McConaughey is a good weekend book to peruse. It's not a straightforward memoir. It's more a musings on life. He's been journaling for over thirty years and he's fifty now. And he's still asking questions - how to be a better man? How to have less stress? How to have fun? How to hurt people less? How to have meaning in life? How to be more me? (cover blurb)

He embraces solitude and talks about some trips to the far reaches of the world to explore and dig deeper into his own zen. He reflects on his family, the good and the bad, and the love. 

Matthew McConaughey hopes  you enjoy this book: It's a love letter. To life. 

It's also a guide to catching more greenlights - and to realizing that the yellows and reds eventually turn green, too. By design and on purpose...  (cover blurb)

I really enjoyed this memoir and his voice shines through. He's a man with a great sense of humor - about life and himself.  He also takes living seriously. I do think as you read this, it makes one reflect and contemplate ones own life, and be aware of the red, yellow, and green lights encountered on this crazy journey. 

Happy Friday and weekend. Stay safe