Monday, December 14, 2015

Book Review - Art of Memoir

Mary Karr’s The Liar’s Club was a sensational memoir. She followed it up with Cherry and Lit. Now she’s using her skills as a writer and years as a professor and combining the two for The Art of Memoir. It is not a step by step how-to book, but rather a general discussion of the elements needed to put a personal story down on paper. From the cover blurb – she breaks open our concepts of memory and identity, and illuminates the cathartic  power of reflecting on the past: anybody with an inner life or complicated history, whether writer or reader, will relate.

She uses other writers as examples and also delves into her own process. She admits to fear. She describes the concern of baring her soul, facing demons, and dealing with her own family and their perspective on their roles in her life. Mary Karr says, “ In some ways, writing a memoir is knocking yourself out with your own fist, if it’s done right.”

Everyone has a story, but how do you make  yours interesting to others?  She discusses all the senses and how to throw your reader into the life you are depicting. She says, “ Everyone has a past, and every past spawns fierce and fiery emotions about what it means.” If you are writing a memoir, you are taking a side and trying to be fair in the exposition of the tale. Will the reader stay on your side? Or will they drift and wonder what you are hiding? It’s a dance of sorts, and words are the musical pacing.

I enjoyed The Art of Memoir and marked off many pages for the wisdom, wit, and advice Ms. Karr shares. She’s been a favorite writer of mine and does not disappoint. P. 215 Writing, regardless of the end result – whether good or bad, published or not, well reviewed or slammed – means celebrating beauty in an often ugly world. And you do that by fighting for elegance and beauty, redoing or cutting the flabby, disordered parts.  Whether you are a writer or a reader, The Art of Memoir will strike a chord in your heart and have you digging into your own life story.


10 comments:

  1. I hope my memoir is interesting to others.
    Despite the hookers.

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  2. Sounds like a great book to read for those who are considering writing a memoire.

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    1. plenty of food for thought, whether memoir or even writing in general

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  3. Ah yes, I often discard my flabby, disordered parts :-(

    I haven't read a how-to book for a long time.

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    1. the book flows - it's not a paint by numbers writing book. Have you read her memoir The Liar's Club? It is excellent

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  4. This sounds like a great one to get and keep on hand for ideas and inspiration on days when those are lacking.

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  5. she has a good sense of humor - it's not all super serious and mysterious

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  6. In that case, I wrote my memoir the right way, over and over again. Sure did feel like I kept knocking myself out with my own fist. I appreciate this review, Joanne. Thank you.

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    1. my guess is Mary Karr would give you a big hug and a thumbs up.

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